25 ok ok 27 things about me...

A few weeks ago while on visiting my guilty pleasure ...Facebook, more about that later, we had to write 25 random things about ourselves and post them....here are my 27 ( if you know me I tend to make my own rules at times) random things....
25 things about me hmmmm what can I write publically

1 I believe I was meant to have boys so I could teach them how to be good men and respect women.
2 I love to say the word Fuck Off, Fuck it, God damn fucking dog it is such a release it makes me feel so much better.
3 I am in shock that my children do not say it ... all the time.
4 I absolutely love my job, I was put on this earth to work and play with senior's and be creative. I feel it is an absolute honour to be surrounded by such amazing people who are so vital and so full of stories and so damn funny. I learn more from them than they could ever learn from me.
5 I don't like mean people, I don't have patience for woe is me, I do not like when people make judgements without walking or reflecting on what it would be like to walk in someone's shoes, I dislike negativity....but on the other hand I believe everyone has something to offer or give.
6. I believe Stress kills or it will make you very sick.
7. I believe in Karma baby. I believe you put good into the world good will come back. I believe everything happens for a reason even though that belief has been questioned many a time I believe it still rings true. I believe we are not given more than we can handle and we all have our path.
8 I cannot truly follow a recipe I always have to add something or do something that makes it my own.
9 My music tastes run the gamut and change with my moods...Miriam Makeba, African tribal music ABBA, Swedish rock from the 80's and 90's, Sven Ingvar's, Nickelback, loooove Serena Ryder, ACDC, Andre Bocelli, Led Zeppelin, Guns and Roses, etc
10 Violins make me cry.
11 Remembrance Day makes me cry I miss alot of friends at that time and it makes me sad that in my lifetime I believe we will see the last of the veterans of the World Wars. Play the last Post and I am done. I wonder if I spelled Remberance day correctly because I always spell it wrong...one of them has to be right I do not know which one.
12 I am Phoebe... I am full of contradictions, I always want to be fair to all the cookies, I sometimes put my foot in my mouth
13 I never tell anyone... no one ... and I never will everything about me I wouldn't want them to think I was too fucked up LMAO
14 My house is a disaster it always will be a disaster ( self fulfilled prophecy) but if my children and husband are happy and content and there is laughter in my house I am beginning to not really care.
15 I always cared too much what people think. Now I really don't give a fuck.
16. I do not understand the concept of a sip, take a bite, try a little, driving slow it' s either all or nothing.
17 I love to learn and constantly love looking up stuff and learning new things.
18 I have the utmost respect and am in awe of single mom's especially moms who are PSW's or in the nursing field they are in it because they care but they nevr have enough time and it is a hard, dirty job.
19 My goals include wanting to publish a book, a children's book or two and I will, go to Circus school and try the trapeze, go to Indonesia or Africa and see primates especially orangutangs in the wild and spend time with them I want to hold an orangutang, I want to see New Orlean's I want to dance with abandonment in a smoky New Orleans Jazz bar, I want to return to Sweden in the summer with my family Carp and the boys, I want to go on Safari in South Africa see the grasslands in a hot air balloon with animal herds underneath take hundreds of Photos and study a lions pride with Carp for a month when he has retired and once again see an African night sky, I want to speak french in Paris and smell the urine soaked streets and shop in the flea markets and take a unique picture of the Eifell tower, I want to be married to Carp still laughing and still want to be when we are 75. I still want to be a photographer when I am 75 and still using film just to prove a point.
20 I believe in teamwork I do not care what my job title is I don't care what my job description says if it helps one of the resident's and I can do it or help and I have the time I will.
21 My proudest achievement so far is my family and my marriage. It takes work all the time that never ends but damn it is so worth it
22 I dislike War I don't believe it solves anything...I support the troops who are overseas but I still cannot support the idea of War.
23 I was born in Sweden but as an adult I lived in Sweden for 6 months and it opened my eyes and it allowed me too see that we all have our good and bad points...and that I will always be a svartskalle no matter how well I speak the language. I am proud of my heritage but I also realize that I will never truly be a Swede but cheering for them every once in a while never hurt and calling IKEA the mother ship is just the truth....but I miss Sweden and my family like crazy and I get so homesick sometimes it physically hurts especially in the summer there is nothing more beautiful.
24 I have friends for many reasons, I never tell one person everything, there are certain ones who can bring you to the ground, help you soar, pat you on the back, help you realize you aren't really a heathen mother and then some who would go to jail get you out and slap you across the face and say what the hell were you thinking
25 I have absolutely no regrets despite being in some really dark places, doing some really stupid drunken things ok alot of really stupid drunken things....everything I have done I have learned something
26 I am good at coming up with the ideas and not good at following the rules sometimes yeah no 26 gotta be different than everybody else
27 Living in Dunyo West Africa for 3 months taught me alot...I don't know everything, life is as life is unfair, rich, beautiful and cruel and there is nothing I can do to change it, don't be afraid of the huge bugs become friends with the huge bugs, conversations about bowel movements can be very consuming and interesting
27 Family is be all and end all...family is what you make it whether it be created by love or blood.